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(pronounced – sek-shoo-a-luh-tee | ˌsɛkʃʊˈæləti)
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Welcome to the Pride in Series at Gayther. A series dedicated to helping people discover more about sexualities, gender identities, and special groups. For those who identify with, take pride in, and learn more about their unique identities. Each series is packed with information, including well-known and notable people, key facts, and a highlight of the wide range of available resources.

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SEXUALITIES

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ABOUT SEXUALITY

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More about sexuality?
The dictionary defines it as “a person’s ability to experience or express sexual feeling”, but what does that actually mean? Sexuality is more than a feeling; it physically affects our bodies, and who we find attractive will be different for every person. To better understand it, we will group it into two distinct categories: attraction and emotion.

ATTRACTION
Sexual attraction is based on an individual’s likes and dislikes, which are frequently in play when they meet new people. Sexual attraction or arousal releases high levels of dopamine (the feel-good neurotransmitter). At the same time, we release hormones such as norepinephrine (associated with the fight-or-flight response), which make us feel energised and happy. The level of attraction will likely depend on a person’s senses, feeling attracted to the way they smell. As well as their physical appearance, how they sound and even how well they kiss. There are no rules of attraction, as attraction and arousal are unique to each person and can include one or many factors.

EMOTIONS
Unlike attraction, emotion is more about creating close connections or bonds with people. When we form close relationships and love someone, it often changes us physically. Usually, making them feel happier and more energetic increases creativity and helps them feel validated. Some may form special bonds when there is physical attraction, while others only feel attraction once they have formed a bond or piqued their interest.

Sexuality is both attraction and emotional, but is not always balanced or equal. Who we love and why we feel that way will depend on the person. When it occurs, it changes the way we think and feel
Positive representation helps in
Acceptance and coming to terms with a part of what makes you can be challenging for many people. The Gayther pride in series is about celebrating all things relating to sexualities, gender identities and special groups. Showcasing the exceptional people, interesting facts and ways to connect with those unique communities, all designed to help and promote pride in LGBTQIA+ identities.
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DEMYSTIFYING

Discover answers to some of the most commonly asked questions relating to sexuality
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commonly asked
Sexualities Demystifying - More Now
More now than ever before
No, just more people having the freedom to be themselves. The more accepting society is, the more people are honest about their sexuality. LGBTQIA+ is not a new thing; gay people have been around for thousands of years, and though the struggle has been challenging, many countries around the world have become much more accepting, giving people the freedom to be themselves
Sexualities Demystifying - Deviant Free
Deviant-free
Members of the LGBTQIA+ Community are not deviants. The word deviant is used to describe a person who behaves in ways that differ from accepted social and sexual standards. People from the LGBTQIA+ Community want the same thing as everyone else. To be loved and to have the freedom to be themselves. All of which, in the 21st century, are considered normal and socially acceptable by the majority of people
Sexualities Demystifying - Not Talking
Not talking will change the outcome
It has not worked for thousands of years. People, especially parents, have the right to choose how to bring up their children. Not talking about LGBTQIA+ related matters does not stop people growing up from identifying as LGBTQIA+; instead, it just makes their challenge of understanding and acceptance much more difficult
Sexualities Demystifying - Equality
Equality means the same
Members of the LGBTQIA+ Community are looking to be treated the same as everyone else. Equality does not mean being treated differently but having the same rights and protections under the law. Achieving equality is a slow process, and whilst countries and societies adjust, anti-discrimination laws are put in place to protect those most vulnerable to abuse
Sexualities Demystifying - Someone to Blame
Someone is to blame
No one is to blame, as it is just part of who they are. The LGBTQIA+ Community is diverse and is made up of people from all walks of life. From masculine to feminine, athletic to creative, a vast collection of people identify as LGBTQIA+. Identifying as they do regardless of their upbringing or exposure to gender stereotypes
Sexualities Demystifying - It is a choice
It is a choice
No, the only choice LGBTQIA+ members make is whether to accept who they are or to live a lie. Pretending to be something that they are not, suppressing how they think or feel for the sake of fitting in or for fear of persecution
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ABOUT THE PRIDE IN SERIES

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The pride-in series is primarily about showcasing the exceptional groups and people that make up the global LGBTQIA+ community. Taking pride is about educating and sharing information about the various identities, sexualities and special groups. It is a platform that showcases and highlights the groups of individuals who make up the global community and, hopefully, helps people feel pride. Experiences and treatments will vary for people from different groups within the international community.

Many will share similarities and even unite within the common cause for equality and legal recognition. However, how a person chooses to identify can vary greatly depending on the country, society, and culture they live in. The pride-in series will help them connect with their community and provide many reasons to be proud, regardless of how they choose to identify or love. Whether a person is straight, gay, transgender or cisgender, the pride-in series is for everyone and highlights that we are all unique and special.

Acceptance and coming to terms with how a person chooses to identify or love, especially accepting it themselves, is hard. The process of self-discovery and acceptance is often the most significant and challenging step for anyone from the LGBTQIA+ community. The acceptance process can be complex and made worse when we cannot connect with or identify others like us. Failing to find positive representation can make a person feel disconnected, alone and isolated.

The reality is that once a person becomes aware that others out there think and feel as they do, even in part, it can be liberating. Often, it helps them feel represented and reassures them that they are not alone. No one is the same, and if a person cannot identify with a group, it does not mean there are not others out there who think and feel similarly. Sexualities, identities, age, and circumstances are not always easy to group, define, or even be fluid.

Being different from the majority is not always easy. Understanding and accepting who they are often takes immense courage, especially given the risks many will likely face. Positive representation and education can help, giving them a platform to take pride in who they are or have become. There is no right or wrong, normal or different, just unique people with common goals and with aspirations to be free, loved, and safe.

Learn more about the extensive resources available on Gayther, which takes pride in all the groups that form the global community, including those from conventional identities and sexualities. Ultimately, remembering that we are all unique and special, and how we identify and choose to love, is part of who we are as individuals, but not the only thing that defines us. Love is love, and accepting those different to us is crucial in a free and fair society.
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